Maybe you don’t know for sure: all you know is something feels off when you think about a certain relationship or interaction with an institution or organization. You feel alone and confused—but calling it “abuse” feels extreme and unsettling, a label for what happens to other people but not you. Yet you can’t shake the feeling: something’s not right. Our guest today will reveal a pattern that accompanies many types of abuse, decode these evil methods and teach us how to stop the cycle and make abusers less effective at accomplishing destruction in our lives.